Signs of an Abuser Survey?
25 Questions
Should take 3 minutes or less
The intent of this survey is not to dispense legal nor medical advice or to render a psychological diagnosis. The intent rather is to offer information of a general nature and help inform survey participants regarding behavioral traits and patterns. Should at any time a risk of exposure to danger be present, it is strongly recommended that law enforcement or the appropriate government agency be contacted for assistance.
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Have you or your partner ever been under the influence of drugs or alcohol when aggressive or abusive towards anyone?
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Have you or your partner ever been greatly impaired while under the influence of drugs or alcohol while acting violently?
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Have you or your partner, while under the influence of drugs or alcohol, ever been helpless during this time and requested help or created a situation that caused someone to offer help?
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Have you or your partner experienced more than two emergencies, crisis, or issues that need immediate attention within one 30 day period?
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Have you or your partner often used crisis emergencies to draw in help and ask for assistance from others?
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Have you or your partner ever tortured, taunted, or killed pets?
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Have you or your partner ever tortured, taunted, or harmed children?
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Have you or your partner ever created a fearful atmosphere for others?
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Have you or your partner ever been punished with corporal punishment, unwanted sex, or physical torture to "teach a lesson"?
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Have you or your partner caused an injury and then lied about how the injury occurred?
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Have you or your partner ever threatened or attempted suicide, self-mutilation, or self-injury to compel a partner to cooperate and agree to something?
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Have you or your partner ever physically kept anyone from leaving by force or by threat?
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Have you or your partner claimed to be the final moral authority, talk to God directly on the behalf of others, or felt entitled to make all the family decisions?
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Have you or your partner ever removed, seized, or hidden resources from someone such as a cell phone, a car, car keys, money, credit cards, a driver’s license, ID, etc.?
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Have you or your partner ever made degrading and negative remarks about one’s earning ability, self-sufficiency, or independence? (e.g., "You can't make it on your own, you will never get a job, you are nothing without me.")
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Have you or your partner experienced moodiness and exhibited patterns alternating between good/quiet periods and emotional/violent/hostile periods?
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Have you or your partner created arguments, tension, or at times explode with emotion in order to blow off steam.
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Have you or your partner ever asked for forgiveness and promised “it will never happen again” after an argument or fight?
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Have you or your partner ever destroyed property, slammed doors, or screamed at family members?
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Have you or your partner ever offered gifts, flowers, chocolate or other endearing objects after a fight or argument?
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Have you ever received mysterious notes, emails, or seen unauthorized on-line postings about yourself?
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Has an acquaintance or friend ever shown-up unexpectedly or “by coincidence” several times over a short period of time that seems like these appearances were actually planned?
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Have you ever asked to be left alone but your partner ignores your requests?
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Does a person you asked to leave you alone attempt to contact you through others and attempt to use others pressure you?
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Have you asked someone to leave then they quickly disconnect and just as suddenly to appear months or years after having had no contact?
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